The car continues to fight me back my 81 is now back together the interior is new and the suspension is tight and running pretty well..........except when I picked up from body shop where my T-tops were adjusted It had a blown/melted fuse in A/C slot upon pulling fuse out one of tabs broke off stuck in clip..........So far no luck getting it out tried needle nose pliers can't grab it.......My big a%8*s doesn't fit under there very well any suggestions other than making my a%*s smaller????

That's not a good situation to be in, but I guess ya already figured that, eh?
If you can't dig it out with a couple of small pocket screwdrivers, you may have to take the fusebox off the firewall, and remove the terminal from the back. If the terminal from the fuse is melted in there that tight, chances are the fusebox is melted, also.
Good luck on this one...the only solution I can see is removing the fusebox, an repairing it from there.