What you are going thru truly sucks. Do you really see yourself ever trusting this girl again? Time is to short on this planet, sharing that time with someone you can't trust is truly stupid. Find your spine, forgive her for doing what she did and move on. You will feel much better about yourself and life in general. As my 14 year old son likes to say " Dad, there are other pebbles on the beach ". You have your whole life ahead of you, you should not let this girl decide its course for you.

 You sound like a good kid, how bad can you be, you own a Corvette. You will be fine, in six months you will look back at this situation as a lesson learned.

Best Wishes

 I must say that after reading this entire saga, I'm truly impressed by the caring responses from our Vette people, it's heart warming to say the least; if ever I have a serious issue, I'll come here for a little advise, my dog is getting tried of listening to me...

But seriously Racer, never underestimate the power of pray, put your faith AND trust in Him; when He's ready, you'll get an answer and ONLY then.   Wait on Him not your emotions; marriage is forever.  Believe me, we all have our stories and I'm no different...WAIT

                                Keep the faith and be strong...

I bet they get married. A friend did that, bad mouthed his girl and even got me to agree with him and badmouth her and then he married her anyway. Made me feel like the fool!

[QUOTE=Daytona69]For the life of me I can't figure out why you came here for advice in the first place. You clearly didn't have any intention of listening to any of it.

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I wholeheartly agree.  Also, i do want to say, i am offended at the  "Big Guy" comment.  You came here, and asked for Christian advice.  Then dont insult our God in such a way.  To us, He is The Creator of the Universe, our Loving Father, not the "Big Guy".  A Buddist would not insult Buddah, a Muslim would never insult Allah, and a Hindu wont stop a mouse from eating while the Hindu starves. So, please refrain from insulting my God in such a way.

  Since you asked for Christian advice, I would like to point out that "friendship with benefits" if you are implying sexual benefits, is fornication.   Because of the request at the beginning of wanting to have some spiritual guidance, I apoligize to any offended when i give you a simple bible quote on this topic.  I usually dont like to quote the bible in a public setting as this, however, he did request spiritual guidance, and the Bible is the Christian authority on spiritual guidance. (underline mine)

(1Corinthians 6:9-11) ^{Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.}

Racer, you've asked for advise, and got it. I guess she's with you today, and any further advise will be wasted. However, I'll give you mine.  Everyone has had a broken heart, IT SUCKS ! As such, you are thinking with your heart. And that my young friend, is your biggest problem. Her indiscretion is a warning to you. She's not sure of her love for you, her faith, and herself. Stay with her, that's what you want to hear. This way you'll be miserable, because you'll never trust her !

What will you do when she becomes pregnant ? Is it yours ? You will have those doubts. You are old enough to have a broken heart, but too young to be going through this BS. Odds are the relationship will not work, no one but God will know the outcome.

BTW, marry her and when, and if it's over, she'll take the Vette ! Finish school, get a good paying job, live your life. Your heart will heal, believe me it will. And you will find the love of your life.