If it runs/idles better with the hotter 44s in it, that's what you should use. The slightly colder 43s might be allowing the #6 cyl. to load up. You may indeed have a bad valve seal on that cylinder. The hotter plug will keep the oil from fouling the plug like the 43 is doing.
I've always gapped my point-type Chebby plugs at a tight .30"...just too old school to change.

A hotter ignition system would allow a wider gap, which helps greatly to increase the spark across the electrodes.
Definitely change all of the valve seals if you decide to do it. Lots of folks only put the seals on the exhaust valves, but I prefer to put them on both intake and exhaust. I also only use the "umbrella" type seals...not the goofy little o-ring types...those are pretty much useless, imho.
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