Adam Wartell said:   I hope you understand that I was NOT asking for "excuses" and I certainly was not trying to pry into anyone's personal life.  I'm just simply trying to get an idea of what is the number one reason that kept people from attending.  You all certainly didn't have to explain yourselves if you didn't want to. And certainly didn't have to share any personal details you didn't want to.

I'd have to agree you were not asking nor prying. But,... and these are not "excuses." To me excuses are to cover a lie. I like the term "reasons" to clarify the truth, which I feel and probably many others did also to give you their reasons for not attending. Reasons go beyond the scope of set questions in a poll IMO. 

Sarge81 said:
Ha! You so predictable. I knew you were going to say that. lol. Even over the internet, and a few get togethers I know you all to well. Too funny. 

I'm just trying to figure out if there is a way that I can increase attendance at future gatherings. I'm hoping the "reasons" ()  for not coming this year will help me figure that out.

And I only asked for a description in the "Other" choice because I may have missed a reason or two that fits many people.  But some of the descriptions fall under many of the choices I listed.  I was looking for the NUMBER ONE reason that caused someone to not attend.

Thanks!

manchestershark said:  A WHOLE HEARTED agreement Sarge. I replyed because I also had REASONS. Excuses come from irresponsible people. I have nothing to hide. Priorities get you farther than being two faced. Can't speak for the others who replied, but HONESTY is NOT the best policy, it's the ONLY policy.