desiree, I replaced the front bumper a few months back and you husband is right it is a bx%ch but you just have to takeit slow. I would get so pist I would walk away. Coming off wasn't quite as bad as going back on. With the tru-flex being alot stiffer than the plastic one. You have to evenly work it across the honeycomb core top, bottom, left, and right. I have read somewhere that you can accually remount the bumper without the honeycomb. If I'm wrong please someone tell me? You just have to remember if you hit something be ready to go get another bumper. No cushion under neath the bumper and it will break/exploed like a egg shell. I replaced mine with the honey comb in place

and it was a BITCH. Another thing those nice dimpled areas on your new bumper, well they don't quite line up to the factory hole as you might think. So if you can place the bumper all the way on and somehow reach up inside and mark the holes on the new bumper you will be alot better off. Bolts to put it back on? I used the retainers not stock brackets. They were Ok but you have to attach them to the bumper or at least I had too. I drilled the holes for the retainer studs then drill a hole through the bumper lip that alined with the retainer holes on each side of the stud. Then tried rivets in those holes but that was a NO GO. So i got very small bolts with resesed heads and nuts and bolted each side. That way the retainers stayed in position for the finial bolt up. (Darn this is getting long

) Any way I'm doing the rear this weekend the same way, let you know. The hardest studs are the upper outside ones in front. Got to be really good at feeling and bending for those. Mine pulled up fine so I didn't even mess with them. Oh when tightening up the bumper on the stud be careful area may not be flush all around and trying to close a gap will pop the bumper lip

. I know this is pretty long but just trying to give you some advise. Hope this helps.
sgm2004